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Be Positive Role Models For The Children That You See

Role models for our children matter. We can all be role models to the children we see around us. Of course parents, family members, teachers, police and those in authority are the biggest role models, but that does not mean that we can not all help and be a part of this. If you see…

The World Is What We Make It!

The world is what we make it good or bad it is our choice our actions decide how the world will be. If it will get better or worse? All our actions make a change they affect the world around us and the people around us our friends and family our towns and community. So…

Law Of Attraction And Domestic Violence

You get what you concentrate on so if you are living in domestic violence or have lived in domestic violence you need to change your thoughts and actions so that you can have a better life. it is a great idea to see a counsellor who works with domestic violence to work on your last…

Why Does Your Vibration Matter?

We hear people talk about vibrations but what are these and why do they matter. Every live animal, plant or creatures has a vibration¬† which can change with life experiences that happen to you. Vibrations start at 100 and go to above 500. At 100 the vibration is that of fear guilt, shame and hate…

Take Small Steps Every Day

If you take small steps every day you will soon reach your goals. Lots of small steps lead to big changes in your life. Keep working daily or weekly to reach your goals. Don’t give up and keep working at it until you are there. A big goal is achievable when you make it into…

Don’t Give Up Stay Strong

My advice to anyone man or woman going through domestic violence is to stay strong don’t give up you never know what is going to happen and miracles do happen if you keep saying the truth. For years it felt like no one believed me and the truth to what was really going on. So…

The Best Justice There Is After Domestic Violence Is To Do Well

After my sexual assault trial where the abuser was acqutted due to not enough evidence my case worker with the Dpp special victim unit send me a letter to support me. In this letter she wrote messages to support me like “I cannot begin to comprehend what things are like for you as your heart,…

Psychopaths and Domestic Violence

Psychopaths and Domestic Violence   I lived with a psychopath in domestic violence and it did my head in because I could never win no matter what I did I lost everytime. It was a crazy game that I lived in for months and years trying my hardest to do well and get out of…

What Happens When You Purposely Hurt Others?

I am not talking about when you fly off the handle on a bad day or get triggered by something and you respond. But when you have purposely knowningly done something hurtful and upsetting to someone to hurt them. What you do to others will come back to you in someway at sometime in the…

What To Do Once You Are Out Of Domestic Violence!

  If you have just got out of domestic violence I understand how you feel because I have been there where you are now.¬† I would like to give you some helpful information and tips that helped me to do better. Once you have left and your safety has been taken care of here are…