This information is from my Domestic Violence Course, My Self Esteem Course. My Own Experiences, Research And Downloads From Source. It can not be copied, used or stolen from me as it is copyrighted. This information was collected from a group of women who have been through domestic violence and this is what they said they would want in a new healthy relationship.

Not a charmer

Peaceful and quiet even if that means being alone.

Someone who can compromise and negotiate in life, not having fixed ideas.

Someone who is centred, balanced, grounded, and consistent.

Someone who is a real adult, has separated emotionally and physically from their parents.

Someone who is accepting and loving who can accept me for being me.

Someone who will allow me to have my own opinion.

Someone who shows consideration and is caring towards me.

Someone who’s actions and words match.

Someone who is able to admit when they are wrong when they are.

Someone who is at a high vibration and frequency and acts out of love energy.

Someone who allows me to be independence of them and not co- dependant in any way.

Someone who gets on great with my family and friends.

Someone who does not put unrealistic pressures on me or my children.

Someone who spends quality time with their own children.

Someone who is interested in how I really feel and what matter to me.

Someone with a sense of humour and can laugh at things.

Someone who shares the same values and goals in life and aligns with me.

Someone who has done all their inner work or is in the process of this.