Blog

Kindness Program With Stop All Domestic Violence

Stop all domestic violence wants to promote a program in Lithgow and surrounding towns of using kindness to help and support others. If we all do one kind act every day to others we will make a big difference to lots of lives. Lithgow is the town of kindness. So I would love residences, business…

Is A Victim At Fault For Being A Victim?

Its true that a victim is not to blame for their abuse from another person but they also need to take some responsibility for what they are attracting into their life. An abuser is always to blame for the abuse but the victim needs to stop being a victim and become a survivor. To learn…

Why Being Grateful Is So Important In Your life

We have all heard about people talking about being grateful but what does this really mean and why is it so important in your life. When you are grateful you are living your life at a very high frequency or a vibration.  Every thing in the universe has a frequency and being grateful for what…

Positive Affirmations And Abuse

How do affirmations help abuse victims? They help by creating a different way of thinking and creating your life. Using positive affirmations creates a foundation of positive ways of thinking and feeling. When you are abused you often are very depressed and sad and your abuser often says lots of negative words about you so…

Why Kindness Works

Kindness works because it is the right thing and the best result to happen for everyone concerned everybody wins its a win win situation. So when you have a choice always use kindness its best for everyone and every situation. When you are kind it creates a ripple of others being kind and that flows…

Anger and Domestic Violence

What is it about Anger and domestic violence?  Why is it ok for you to physically hurt or to yell at your partner. In today’s society it seems that everyone is angry at something or someone.  It has become acceptable to be angry as we see it every where we go, road rage when someone cuts…

Violence At Work

So what do you do when violence happens at work this can be a very difficult situation for you to get out of as you may need financially to keep your job. You may have to look for another job so that you are not abused at work and feel safe.  It is actually illegal…

How Domestic Violence Affects Children And Babies

So how does Domestic violence affect children and babies? They pick up every sound and emotion of those around them even when they are in the womb. Studies have found that it is actually recorded in their cells. So you need to think very carefully about how you behave around them and be responsible and…

Mental and Psychological Abuse

Living with an abuser is very hard but when the abuse is mental and psychological and not physical it is even harder. This kind of  abuse is called Gaslighting. Others can’t always see this kind of abuse that is happening to you but it still hurts you inside there is still damage being done to…

How Is Stalking Abusive

Stalking is abusive because it is a form of control and manipulation of another person. A person who is stalked will feel frightened they will feel watched and unsafe. They may not know what is happening for them or what is going to happen next. They may be afraid to go anywhere or to do…